Social Aloe is a gathering place for healing and deliverance, especially for the brokenhearted and those who have drifted away from the Lord. Social Aloe is meant to provide edification, exhortation, and comfort for the glorification of God.
If your right hand gets dirty, when you use your left hand to hand to wash the right, both hands get cleaner in the process. So, whenever the Lord gives you an opportunity to help others, He is also giving you an opportunity to help yourself in the process. Doing something good for others is oftentimes good for you too in pleasantly surprising ways. Have you ever helped someone who was feeling and possibly looking downtrodden and felt worse when that person thanked you with a smile? Smiles are precious, especially when they break through and emerge from a previously broken or hardened heart. Hands are precious too, particularly when they are used to convey the love of Christ Jesus to others.
Don’t be shocked, but there was a time when I pursued sin. However, now that I have ended my relationship with sin, and began pursuing Jesus, sin has been pursuing me, relentlessly. And it has showed up at some unexpected times and places. For example, yesterday, I was on a website that I frequent because it is a resource for me to copy and paste Scriptures whether I am writing a book or a social media post. I was shocked when I saw an advertisement for another company on the left side of the screen. It had two images, one of which was of a topless woman, obviously not a “Proverbs 31 woman” (Proverbs 31:21-22). It was surreal that I was on a Biblical website where another company was showing its products, one of which I did not want to see, and it had no place with something that was holy. It was literally like a person with a Bible who has such as photograph in it. Once I realized that what I was seeing was really there, I left the page and began rebuking the devil. Like I said, there was a time when I pursued sin, but since I began pursuing Jesus, sin has been pursuing me. The devil has a smorgasbord of sins on his menu and he will use anything in his efforts to ensnare us. We know the devil as the accuser of the brethren (Revelation 19:10). For some people it is easy for him to accuse them of sin, because they are living in it, but for others, he will falsify a case against them. For those who do not succumb to any of his many seductions, he will use entrapment.
In fact, as I was getting inspired to write and share this post, I was reminded of a dream I had, one I came across in my journal yesterday. I woke up from the dream feeling as if what I had seen in the dream was the Lord telling me why He has been withholding something from me. I woke up feeling as if the Lord has been withholding something from me because I was not ready. The worse part was I felt as if the Lord could not trust me with it. Now, when the Lord says you’re not ready, you’re not ready, regardless of how well prepared you feel. But I kept wondering how it could be if the Lord could trust me with other similar things, then why not that? Another reason why it is also important to also analyze how dreams make you feel is that it made me feel as if I did not deserve the Lord’s best. However, I know that is not the case; the devil simply wanted me to unknowingly come into agreement with him, and he did it in a very underhanded way. Sometimes our humility gives the devil access into our lives. I felt like I was a mere servant of the Lord but the Bible says, “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.” ~ Romans 8:14 (KJV)
As we draw closer to the Lord, we have to ensure that we do not knowingly or unknowingly come into agreement with the devil. Jesus did few works in His hometown because of their unbelief (Matthew 13:54-58). Fear is basically faith in the devil and unbelief in the Lord. Fear also gives devils room to operate in our lives. Job was a righteous man, and the first two chapters of the Book of Job shed light on how the Lord lifted His hedge of protection from and the resulatant afflictions by the hands of the devil. But there was more to it than that based on when Job said, ‘For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me. I was not in safety, neither had I rest, neither was I quiet; yet trouble came.’ ~ Job 3:25-26 (KJV) What kind of fears have you been harboring or even ruminating on? Lest not forget, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” ~ 2 Timothy 1:7 (KJV) What have devils robbed you of because your fear is greater than your faith, to include feeling unworthy of what the Lord has in store for you?
Before I close, you may think I went overboard by rebuking the devil for the image in the ad I saw. Well, sometimes you have to recognize the spirit behind certain events, and people. When the devil appeared to Eve, he spoke to her via a serpent, which is described as being more subtle than any other beast of the field (Genesis 3:1). In addition, the devil is described as the “prince of the power of the air”, which is a part of why such filth is broadcast via airwaves. Also, keep in mind what happened when Jesus spoke to His disciples about going to Jerusalem where He would be killed but would rise on the third day. On the surface, it may have seemed like a noble thing when Peter rebuked Him by saying, ‘Be it far from Thee, Lord: this shall not be unto Thee.’ ~ Matthew 16:22 (KJV) However, Jesus looked beneath the surface and He knew who was truly speaking. As a result, Jesus “…turned, and said unto Peter, ‘Get thee behind me, satan: thou art an offence unto Me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men.’” ~ Matthew 16:23 (KJV) Again, Jesus looked at Peter but He rebuked the devil. So, “Lest satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.” ~ 2 Corinthians 2:11 (KJV)
I close with the following:
“Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; and walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given Himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour. But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. Be not ye therefore partakers with them. For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light: (For the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth;) Proving what is acceptable unto the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the light: for whatsoever doth make manifest is light. Wherefore he saith, ‘Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.’ See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” ~ Ephesians 5:1-16 (KJV)
Again, “…have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.” ~ Ephesians 5:11 (KJV) “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” ~ James 4:7 (KJV)
No one is above being corrected, whether privately or publicly rebuked directly by the Lord or indirectly via one of His messengers. However, before I proceed, the Lord usually handles issues privately before giving public rebukes. Examples of no one being “above the law” include:
• The Lord used prophets to rebuke kings (1 Samuel 13 & 15, 2 Samuel 12, Mark 6:17-18, etc.).
• The Lord used prophets to rebuke priests (Jeremiah 23, Ezekiel 34, Matthew 3, Malachi, etc.).
• The Lord used prophets to rebuke other prophets (1 Kings 13, Jeremiah 28, etc.).
• The apostle Paul publicly rebuked the apostle Peter for his hypocrisy, even though Paul could have been deemed junior because he was not one of the original 12 apostles who served with Jesus (Galatians 2).
• Jesus rebuked the clergy on several occasions, most notably in Matthew 23. The Lord also rebuked Aaron (prophet and high priest) and Miriam (prophetess) for speaking out against Moses because of his interracial marriage (Numbers 12).
“Open rebuke is better than secret love.” ~ Proverbs 27:5 (KJV) Every rebuke listed in the Bible, even if they were given in private, are now open rebukes because they are a matter of public record.
Before you rebuke anyone, especially openly, ensure the Holy Spirit is leading you to do so. Many people have given rebukes based on their own volition instead of the leading of the Holy Spirit, thereby committing the sin of witchcraft, especially when the rebuke is meant to manipulate and intimidate versus correct. Moreover, even when the Lord directs you to rebuke others, it may not be well received and you may get rebuked in return. As previously stated, some rebukes are works of the flesh as opposed to promptings from the Holy Spirit. You do not want to be like Peter who made the mistake of rebuking Jesus, under the unction of the wrong spirit. That was why Jesus “…turned, and said unto Peter, ‘Get thee behind Me, satan: thou art an offence unto Me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men.’” ~ Matthew 16:23 (KJV) On the other hand, if you get rebuked for following the Holy Spirit’s direction, especially by someone who considers him or herself senior to you, do not get into a battle because you have done your job. Your effort to correct that individual will then become a part of the person’s judgment. Like Jeremiah warned, ‘And the Lord hath sent unto you all His servants the prophets, rising early and sending them; but ye have not hearkened, nor inclined your ear to hear.’ ~ Jeremiah 25:4 (KJV) A part of why the Lord forgave David of his transgressions (2 Samuel 11) was because the king humbled himself and took the correction from Nathan, the Lord’s messenger, and repented rather than trying to justify his sinful actions or silencing the prophet (2 Samuel 12). By the way, silencing the prophet also includes putting him to death for speaking out against the king. Lest not forget that King Ahab put the prophet Micaiah in prison because he did not like the message the prophet delivered (1 Kings 22). In addition, during the reign of king Jehoiakim of Judah, Jeremiah was almost put to death for delivering the Word of the Lord. In the same chapter, Urijah prophesied against Judah and then fled to Egypt once his life once threatened. Nonetheless, the king sent his men to Egypt to bring Urijah back to Judah where they killed him (Jeremiah 26). It is a bad move to try to silence the Lord’s prophets when they are doing the work of the Lord.
Another reason to ensure the Holy Spirit is directing you to rebuke another person is because “Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses. Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.” ~ 1 Timothy 5:19-20 (KJV) That does not mean elders are immune from being rebuked, to include publicly. Elders, sometimes you get rebuked because the messenger has the Father, Son (Jesus), and the Holy Spirit to bear witness against you. Keep in mind what the Lord revealed to Ezekiel in a vision regarding what people were doing in the Lord’s house (Ezekiel 8). You cannot hide anything from the Lord (see Psalm 139 and 2 Kings 6:8-12). Your “secret sins” may be a secret to others (such as your congregation or spouse) but they are not a secret to the Lord. So, if you are in error, repent before the Lord exposes your deeds. Woe unto the (married and single) “shepherds” who are having sexual relationships with the Lord “sheep”! Stop fondling the Lord’s sheep and feed them instead!
It is better to humbly receive a rebuke and repent rather than remain unrepentant and face the consequences, which may include eventually getting judged by the Lord. If you do not respect (fear) the messenger, at least respect the One who sent him or her. Keep in mind that Jesus said, ‘…there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known. Therefore whatsoever ye have spoken in darkness shall be heard in the light; and that which ye have spoken in the ear in closets shall be proclaimed upon the housetops. And I say unto you My friends, Be not afraid of them that kill the body, and after that have no more that they can do. But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear Him, which after He hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear Him.’~ Luke 12:2-5 (KJV)
Do not lose your fear for the Lord. “For we know Him that hath said, ‘Vengeance belongeth unto Me, I will recompense’, saith the Lord. And again, ‘The Lord shall judge His people.’It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.” ~ Hebrews 10:30-31 (KJV)
Notes: Prophets, the Lord is not going to use you to rebuke anyone if you are living in sin, especially the same sin. Jesus said, ‘…Beware ye of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy.’ ~ Luke 12:1 (KJV) By the way, never get so loyal to a “pastor” that you become disloyal and/or ineffective to the Lord, don’t lose your saltiness (Matthew 5:13). Nathan the prophet and Gad the seer both worked for king David. However, their ultimate allegiance was to the Lord, which was why they obeyed Him and rebuked the king and declared the Lord’s judgment against him when he was in error (2 Samuel 12, 1 Chronicles 21). Whose prophet are you? Do not eat at Jezebel’s table (1 Kings 18). “Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord’s table, and of the table of devils.” ~ 1 Corinthians 10:21 (KJV)
The Lord does not give idle warnings. As a result, when the Lord takes His time to give you a warning, take your time to believe Him and prepare yourself for what will most likely come so it will go well with and for you. By the way, that includes paying attention to, and writing down the conditions associated with a prophecy.
Prior to Cain murdering Abel, “…the Lord said unto Cain, ‘Why art thou wroth? And why is thy countenance fallen? If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? And if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him.’” ~ Genesis 4:6-7 (KJV) Cain heard the Lord’s warning but he did not respond appropriately to it. Similarly, this was how Peter handled a warning from the Lord:
“…The Lord said, ‘Simon, Simon, behold, satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat: but I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.’ And he said unto Him, ‘Lord, I am ready to go with Thee, both into prison, and to death.’ And He said, ‘I tell thee, Peter, the cock shall not crow this day, before that thou shalt thrice deny that thou knowest Me.’” ~ Luke 22:31-34 (KJV)
The Lord is never wrong. As a result, Peter found out the hard way that he should have taken the Lord’s warning more seriously. Today, we have the Holy Spirit to guide us, and like Jesus said, ‘Howbeit when He, the Spirit of Truth, is come, He will guide you into all truth: for He shall not speak of Himself; but whatsoever He shall hear, that shall He speak: and He will shew you things to come.’ ~ John 16:13 (KJV) The Lord told the wise men, and later Joseph, of king Herod’s plans to kill Jesus shortly after His birth. It went well for them because they took the Lord’s warnings seriously and immediately took evasive actions (Matthew 2). So please, do not ignore the Lord when He takes the time to warn you; He does not give idle warnings. It may deter the enemy from attacking you if he sees you alert and wearing the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18).
Now for a warning regarding conditions associated with a prophecy. By the way, the Lord gives conditions associated with a prophecy at the time of the prophecy, not after. When the Lord spoke to Solomon in a dream, He gave the new king wisdom, riches, and honor. But the Lord also gave Solomon the following condition: ‘And IF thou wilt walk in My ways, to keep My statutes and My commandments, as thy father David did walk, then I will lengthen thy days.’ ~ 1 Kings 3:14 (KJV) Sometimes the Lord’s warning comes in the form of the word “if”, which is also a condition for a prophecy. One of the things king Solomon should have adhered to regarding the Lord’s commandments was when He said, ‘Thou shalt have no other gods before Me. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate Me; and shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love Me, and keep My commandments.’ ~ Exodus 20:3-6 (KJV)
Solomon did not heed the Lord’s warnings, which is why he was the cause for the kingdom being split in two, Israel in the north and Judah in the south. Despite the Ten Commandments, and the Lord’s personal warning to Solomon, “…king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, and Hittites: of the nations concerning which the Lord said unto the children of Israel, ‘Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods’: Solomon clave unto these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart. For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the Lord his God, as was the heart of David his father. For Solomon went after ashtoreth the goddess of the Zidonians, and after milcom the abomination of the Ammonites. And Solomon did evil in the sight of the Lord, and went not fully after the Lord, as did David his father. Then did Solomon build an high place for chemosh, the abomination of Moab, in the hill that is before Jerusalem, and for molech, the abomination of the children of Ammon. And likewise did he for all his strange wives, which burnt incense and sacrificed unto their gods. And the Lord was angry with Solomon, because his heart was turned from the Lord God of Israel, which had appeared unto him twice, and had commanded him concerning this thing, that he should not go after other gods: but he kept not that which the Lord commanded. Wherefore the Lord said unto Solomon, ‘Forasmuch as this is done of thee, and thou hast not kept My covenant and My statutes, which I have commanded thee, I will surely rend the kingdom from thee, and will give it to thy servant. Notwithstanding in thy days I will not do it for David thy father’s sake: but I will rend it out of the hand of thy son. Howbeit I will not rend away all the kingdom; but will give one tribe to thy son for David My servant’s sake, and for Jerusalem’s sake which I have chosen.’” ~ 1 Kings 11:1-13 (KJV)
Some warnings from the Lord may strike you as being very odd; especially because they pertain to something you could never envision yourself ever doing. For example, Peter could never envision himself denying his beloved Savior. Warnings from the Lord vary but they should never be overlooked. Again, the Lord does not give idle warnings. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. Thank the Lord for revealing the enemy’s plans before they pose a threat.
The Book of Esther does not specifically refer to God, yet the Lord is all over the story. Similarly, evangelizing does not always require mentioning Jesus’s name, in fact, there are times when mentioning the Lord’s name will cause others to reject you and whatever you have to offer. I was just reminded of how I sometimes evangelize by distributing books the Lord has inspired me to write to individuals and organizations. There have been numerous encounters, especially in other countries, where all I really had was a minute to give someone a book. In one such encounter, I was seated on a bus across from a rabbi. I offered the rabbi a book but he would accept it as long as it did not mention Jesus’s name. That was a problem, which begs the question: How does a person spread the gospel of Jesus, the Christ, without mentioning His name?
Well, the Book of Esther provides examples. For example, when Esther approached the king without being summoned, it was punishable by death, unless the king extended his golden scepter, which is sometimes referred to as the “scepter of grace” (Esther 4:11). Now think about the significance of when Christ sacrificed Himself for us and the veil of the temple was torn from top to bottom. The torn veil to the inner sanctum of the temple, the holy of holies, is symbolic of the way we now have unprecedented access to God, through Christ Jesus (Matthew 27:51). Jesus is like God’s “scepter of grace”, and as it is written, “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” ~ Hebrews 4:15-16 (KJV) But please do not take that lightly because God’s holiness, and our filthiness (without Christ) is far greater than we can imagine. The prophet Isaiah’s encounter with the Lord illustrates that:
“In the year that king Uzziah died I saw also the Lord sitting upon a throne, high and lifted up, and His train filled the temple. Above it stood the seraphims: each one had six wings; with twain he covered his face, and with twain he covered his feet, and with twain he did fly. And one cried unto another, and said, ‘Holy, holy, holy, is theLordof hosts: the whole earth is full of His glory.’ [Lest not forget that God is holy.] And the posts of the door moved at the voice of him that cried, and the house was filled with smoke. Then said I, ‘Woe is me! For I am undone; because I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips: for mine eyes have seen the King, theLordof hosts.’ Then flew one of the seraphims unto me, having a live coal in his hand, which he had taken with the tongs from off the altar: and he laid it upon my mouth, and said, ‘Lo, this hath touched thy lips; and thine iniquity is taken away, and thy sin purged.’” ~ Isaiah 6:1-6 (KJV)
Being in the presence of the holy God convicted Isaiah of his unrighteousness. It illustrates why Jesus said the following about the Holy Spirit, ‘And when He is come, He will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.’ ~ John 16:8 (KJV) The hot coal on Isaiah’s lips that purged his sin and iniquity is symbolic of the cleansing power of Christ’s blood (1 John 1:7).
Again, the absence of the Lord’s name in the Book of Esther does not mean He is absent; the Lord is simply behind a veil, hidden in plain sight, like He is in so many people’s lives. When Mordecai said to Esther, ‘Think not with thyself that thou shalt escape in the king’s house, more than all the Jews. For if thou altogether holdest thy peace at this time, then shall there enlargement and deliverance arise to the Jews from another place; but thou and thy father’s house shall be destroyed: and who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?’ ~ Esther 4:13-14 (KJV)
It was the Lord who selected Esther to be in that position at that time. Lest not forget, the king had many women to choose from when he was seeking a bride to replace the rebellious (former) queen Vashti. The Lord made the other women seem like grass on a field while Esther stood out like a lone sunflower in full bloom on that field of grass.
In closing, here are some oftentimes overlooked evangelism tips from Jesus, which serve as a reminder that sometimes our actions are more important than our words:
‘Then shall the King say unto them on His right hand, ‘Come, ye blessed of My Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: For I was an hungred, and ye gave Me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave Me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took Me in: Naked, and ye clothed Me: I was sick, and ye visited Me: I was in prison, and ye came unto Me.’
Then shall the righteous answer Him, saying, ‘Lord, when saw we Thee an hungred, and fed Thee? Or thirsty, and gave Thee drink? When saw we Thee a stranger, and took Thee in? Or naked, and clothed thee? Or when saw we Thee sick, or in prison, and came unto Thee?’
And the King shall answer and say unto them, ‘Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these My brethren, ye have done it unto Me.’ ~ Matthew 25:34-40 KJV)
Yes, it is important to speak about Jesus, but sometimes it is more important to be like Christ and do things for others like He would while evangelizing. There are times when nonbelievers can tell that Jesus’s name is on a person’s lips but that person’s heart is far from Him. In addition, hungry nonbelievers can also tell when people are more interested in feeding them the gospel of Jesus instead of feeding their physical need. As a result, don’t make receiving food or anything else contingent on receiving the gospel. Don’t tell a suffering person how much God loves them when showing them is more effective. I recall the Lord giving me an assignment to go to another country. My initial reaction was to ask the Lord what He wanted me to do when I got there. But the Lord’s response was to let me know what He wanted me to be. I wanted to do things but the Lord wanted me to be His representative. The Lord had things for me to do in that country, but His response made me even more focused on what He wanted me to be for people’s good and His glory.
You may feel as if you were ineffective by evangelizing without mentioning Jesus’s name. But remember that some plant, others water, but God will give the increase (1 Corinthians 3:6). Don’t try to do it all, especially in one encounter or day. One of the most important Scriptures to remember as an evangelist (Ephesians 4:11), or when doing the work of an evangelist (2 Timothy 4:5), is John 6:44 when Jesus said, ‘No man can come to Me, except the Father which hath sent Me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.’
Many people say there are no prophets of God today, in part because believers have the Holy Spirit. While the latter part of the previous statement is correct, the former is not. One of the many reasons why prophets of the Lord are needed is because the devil’s prophets are busy leading people away from Christ. This is evident by the number of Christians who are supporting things God hates. If that applies to you, and you do not repent, woe unto you when you stand before Christ on the day of your judgment (see Matthew 7:21-23).
When Jonah preached against Nineveh, he simply said, ‘Yet forty days, and Nineveh shall be overthrown.’ ~ Jonah 3:4 (KJV) Note how Jonah delivered the Word of the Lord but he did not use the Lord’s name. However, the Ninevites took him seriously enough to humble themselves and repent. So, whether a prophet is serving the Lord or the devil, the prophet will not always use the name of the god he or she is representing when delivering a message. Many “prophets” of the devil are leading people astray to do or support sinful acts all in the name of love.
For those who say they have the Holy Spirit and don’t need to a prophet to hear from the Lord, good for you, but you may want to reconsider. Many people have the Holy Spirit but they do not listen to Him. That is particularly evident when a person has been living in sin without even giving a thought to repenting and getting things right with the Lord. In addition, David was a prophet. He wrote Psalm 22, which describes some of the things Jesus would say and endure during His crucifixion (Matthew 27). Yet, even though David was anointed, and he heard from the Lord himself, the Lord used prophets to speak to David, to include using Nathan the prophet (2 Samuel 12) and Gad the seer (1 Chronicles 21) to rebuke and proclaim judgment against the king.
As previously stated, the devil has his bevy prophets so the Lord has His prophets also. Similarly to on Mount Carmel with the prophet Elijah against the 450 prophets of baal, the Lord still uses His prophets to point people, to include Holy Spirit filled believers, to the true and living God. Like Elijah said to the Israelites on Mount Carmel, I say unto you, ‘How long halt ye between two opinions? If the Lord be God, follow Him: but if baal, then follow him.’ ~ 1 Kings 18:21 (KJV) Many Christians are professing Jesus while serving other gods, even though Jesus said, ‘No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon [money].’ ~ Matthew 6:24 (KJV) So, on this day, choose which god you will serve. Lest not forget that God said, ‘Thou shalt have no other gods before Me. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God…’ ~ Exodus 20:3-5 (KJV)
Typically, parents want what is best for their children. However, despite their wisdom, they should never try to lord over their children’s lives, particularly when it means usurping the Lord’s will for that child (to include adult offspring). Many parents have ruined their children’s lives by preventing them from fulfilling their Godly calling because of their selfish desires. The following provide Scriptural examples of how parents either helped or hurt their children:
• Bethuel had plans for his daughter Rebekah, but that changed when Abraham’s servant showed up and wanted to take her back to marry Isaac. When Bethuel realized the sudden turn of events was from the Lord, he immediately consented but wanted to spend ten more days saying goodbye to his daughter. Yet, even in that time in history, Rebekah’s family consulted with her and accepted her decision to leave immediately. It is amazing that her family consulted with their daughter to at least get her opinion, and then they respected it. In addition, they did not resort to manipulation (witchcraft) in an effort to get her to stay and delay her destiny (Genesis 24).
• Laban made his daughter Leah’s life very bitter by deceiving Jacob into marrying her. As a result, Leah ended up in a plural marriage with a man who hated her. And to add insult to injury, Leah got a front row seat to witness her husband loving another woman, all because of her father’s selfish interference (Genesis 29).
• A concubine ran away from her husband and went to her father’s house. When her husband went to get her, her father kept delaying their departure. The husband had had enough after five days so he took his concubine and left. Sadly, the delayed departure resulted in the woman getting abused and killed at the hands of others. In addition, the event sparked a war between the Israelites and the Benjaminites, which resulted in 40,000 Israelites getting killed (Judges 19-20).
• Shaphat and his wife probably had plans for Elisha to take over the family’s farm. However, when Elijah showed up to fulfill the Lord’s command to anoint Elisha as a prophet, Shaphat did not hold on to his son. In fact, Elisha kissed his parents goodbye. In addition, Elisha killed the yoke of oxen he had been using to plow the field when Elijah showed up to change his life. Elisha killing the yoke of oxen was symbolic of him closing the door on his past, to include his parents, because his calling involved doing incredible works in the name of the Lord instead (1 Kings 19:16-21). It was more important for Elisha to do his Heavenly Father’s will as opposed to his earthly father’s will, which for many professing Christian parents today is unacceptable. Prophetically, Elisha’s obedience to God’s will is symbolic of when Jesus said to His disciples, ‘My meat is to do the will of Him that sent Me, and to finish His work.’ ~ John 4:34 (KJV)
• Hannah, who had been barren, petitioned the Lord for a son, whom she promised to give to the Lord as soon as she weaned him. The Lord granted her petition and blessed her with a son named Samuel. Hannah could have held onto the child, but she took Samuel to the temple to serve the Lord as soon as she weaned him, just as she had promised the Lord. The Lord rewarded her faithfulness by blessing her with five more children. Samuel grew up and became a prophet and the last judge over Israel (1 Samuel 1-7). If you asked the Lord for a child, and made a vow to commit that child to serving the Lord, the Lord has done His part but have you done yours? By the way, Hannah, who had been barren, could have held on to Samuel and he probably would have been her only child. However, because Hannah did not interfere with Samuel’s destiny, the Lord blessed her with five more children. If you only knew what interfering with your child’s destiny is costing you.
I know parents usually have wisdom, and they can help guide their offspring on the right path, but parents have to learn how and when to let go and trust the Lord. By the way, this applies to an offspring’s chosen profession, and spouse. Sometimes parents do not like the person the Lord has ordained as their offspring’s spouse… Sadly, many parents claim to have let their offspring go, yet are praying to the Lord for Him to make their offspring’s ventures to fail so he or she will return and do what the parents want that offspring to do. That is a form of witchcraft and parents will have to give an account to the Lord for it. When the man with two sons fulfilled the younger son’s request to give him his inheritance, the father complied. The young man moved out and squandered his inheritance, without his father having to pray witchcraft prayers to force his son back home. Yes, the young man hit rock bottom and decided to return to his father’s home, and his father was happy that he returned (Luke 15:11-32). Yet, that father strikes me as the type of man who would have been happy for his son if he had never returned because he was successfully fulfilling his calling in life. One of the things the father demonstrated is that his love for his son was unwavering; the son did not have to do his father’s will to earn or retain his father’s love. Sadly, many young people are afraid to pursue what the Lord has placed in their heart to do because they know their parents would basically disown them.
If you have been praying for a loved one to fail, stop! Again, that is a form of witchcraft (manipulation). You may think you are praying to the Lord when in fact you are giving devils access to your offspring to fulfill your desires. That is equivalent to dedicating your infant to a devil and the child grows up wondering why he or she has been suffering throughout life, to include failed ventures. Devils enjoy stopping people from reaching their God-ordained destiny. If a devil stopped you from reaching your God-ordained destiny, do not allow or be the reason why the same happens to your child. Please keep that in mind before you even think about praying against your offspring for your will instead of God’s will to be done. In addition, Jesus said, ‘Ye have heard that it hath been said, ‘Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.’ But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.’ ~ Matthew 5:43-44 (KJV) How do you think the Lord will respond to you for basically cursing someone you profess to love since He directed you to bless your enemies? Many parents who have been petitioning the Lord in an effort to control their children’s destiny are in trouble with the Lord themselves. Woe unto those parents who did not fulfill their calling from the Lord, so the Lord blessed them with a child who would do the Lord’s will, but the parents are trying to block that also.
Let me stop before I really get started. However, before I go, we will all have to give an account to the Lord for our individual actions, and that include those who obeyed their parents instead of God. If your parents won’t willingly let you go, like Hannah, so you can fulfill the Lord’s purpose for your life, you may have to simply kiss them goodbye, like Elisha, in order to fulfill your Godly purpose. If your parents decide to pray against you doing the Lord’s will, they will have to answer to the Lord. Again, we will all have to give an account of ourselves to the Lord, and He said, ‘Yet say ye, ‘Why? Doth not the son bear the iniquity of the father?’ When the son hath done that which is lawful and right, and hath kept all My statutes, and hath done them, he shall surely live. The soul that sinneth, it shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him.’ ~ Ezekiel 18:19-20 (KJV)
P.S. Obey God! You may be in a bit of a quandary because you want to do the Lord’s will for your life but your parents are opposing it. And, after all, Jesus said we should honor our parents. But the Lord also said, ‘Think not that I AM come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. For I AM come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household. He that loveth father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after Me, is not worthy of Me.’ ~ Matthew 10:34-38 (KJV)