Love Doctor  

One of the many lessons I learned during Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) training (many years ago) was that only a doctor could pronounce someone dead. As an EMT, I could report a patient as having no signs of life but the emergency room physician would have to pronounce the person dead. In addition, the medical examiner would determine a more definitive time and cause of death. However, as an EMT, me saying a patient had no signs of life did not mean the patient was not officially dead, especially when multiple facts substantiated it.

I said all of that to lay the foundation for the following. You don’t need a love doctor to formally pronounce a relationship dead, especially when it has no signs of life. Additionally, in a relationship, either person can declare it dead. Some people have a warped view that a relationship is not over until he or she says it’s over, as if that person is the relationship’s love doctor. Let me be the love coroner by giving you some feedback on the cause of death of that relationship. If you believe a relationship is not over until you say so, you have the kind of mentality that is one of, if not the contributing factor to the death of the relationship. It is a sign that you viewed the other person as a possession instead of a partner. One of the things a coroner looks for is conjunctival petechiae (bloodshot eyes), which, when foul play is involved, indicates potential death by asphyxiation. Sometimes it is easy to tell that one person almost choked to death in a relationship because leaving has given the person a chance to start breathing again. It is an awful sight to see a relationship suffocating the life out of someone.

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A person does not need to be a love doctor to see when a relationship is dead. Oftentimes, a key indicator is because only one person is fighting to save the relationship, as if administering CPR or using an Automated External Defibrillator. One of the implications of a doctor pronouncing a person dead is that it signifies the end of all attempts to resuscitate the person, or to keep the patient on life support. When the doctor “calls it”, all treatment stops. Many relationships are legally dead but they only look somewhat alive because they are on life support. For those of you who are Christians, stop asking the Lord to resurrect a dead relationship, especially one you had no business being in at all. When the Lord “calls it, leave it alone because it is dead. Have you ever noticed that towards the end of Jesus’s life we hear about Mary but not Joseph? We can assume that when Joseph died Jesus let him remain dead, to rest in peace, despite what Mary may have wanted. You will have no peace if you do not let a dead relationship rest in peace. Jesus did not raise everyone from the dead. We also see that based on His response to the man who wanted to go bury his father before following the Lord. You may think some of my comments have been insensitive, but keep in mind that Jesus told the potential disciple, ‘Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God.’ ~ Luke 9:60 (KJV) Similarly, some people are not doing the working of the Lord because they are trying to maintain or resurrect a dead relationship instead.

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A collection of poetry about heartbreak.

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The following is a continuation to the previous post called “Honeyed”. The Lord recently showed me something very disturbing in a dream that I am now inspired to share with you.


I saw a woman who was so obsessed with a man that she stalked him and kept ignoring the numerous times he had rejected her. She was convinced they were meant to be husband and wife, and that they would somehow live a life with a fairy tale ending, despite the obvious contradictory evidence. Her incessant actions caused the man to snap and he began hitting her with the intent of killing her, just to make her stop and go away. She was curled up in the fetal position on the ground and you may not be able to tell what caused the man to stop. He was delivering blows to end her life so she would end her relentless pursuit, but then he felt sorry for her, when despite his rage, he realized that she viewed his violent actions towards her as an expression of love for her. He could not believe his eyes as he wondered what in the world had the woman been through to make her view an act of violence towards her as an expression of love. What made her view him rejecting her as an invitation to disregard his feelings and boundaries to continue pursuing him?

Arguably, equally as disturbing as everything I have described, I saw people (observers) who found humor in the way the woman had been harassing the man. They did not try to stop her. Yet, even though they did not encourage her, they were very complicit in her actions and were basically pushing her to her death. She viewed their silence as consent to her actions, and so did the man. They even failed to intervene while the man was about to pummel her to death. It reminds me of so many crimes nowadays where people stand by and watch, while possibly broadcasting it on social media, but won’t try to stop it or even call the police. Edmund Burke is quoted as saying, “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

Ladies and gentlemen, if you feel as if someone’s abusive actions towards you or your abusive action towards another person is a sign of love, you need professional help. In the dream, the man’s original thought was to shoot her five times in her chest to put her down like the animal she was acting like. But since he employed a slower method of inducing death, he got the chance to realize what was going on inside of her. Quite frankly, she was so far gone (mentally), I believe if he had shot her that she would have viewed it as a sign of love too.

On a cautionary note, be careful of anyone who has no respect for the boundaries you have established and possibly continually reaffirmed. A person who does not know how to take “NO” for an answer is someone you need to distance yourself from. I did not include how far the lady had gone in the dream to violate the man’s boundaries, but she could have easily have killed herself in the process of trying to get to him. Again, people stood by and did nothing.

I know this post is very heavy and I am not sugarcoating it. Many things start in a person’s childhood, so, if you have a child, please model what love is supposed to look and feel like. Consider the ways you express your love to your child. In addition, take note of the romantic relationships you have around your child. If you have someone who is abusing you around your child, even if that person never does anything directly to your child, he or she is indirectly abusing your child by abusing you. Never sacrifice your child so you can be in a relationship, especially with a man or woman who is not your child’s biological parent. Sometimes it is best to kill a relationship in order to save your child. I will this right here before I really get started.


God has called us to live in peace, especially in relationships.


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Never take advice to stay in an abusive relationship from a family, friend, or associate of the abuser, especially when everything else is telling you to get out. And worse of all, don’t listen to the smooth and potentially persuasive words of the abuser whose lips are glazed with honey, but his or her heart is full of venom. In fact, that person is abusing you by trying to get you to ingest his or her honey-coated venom. Don’t get honeyed into staying in a toxic situation.


I thought this post was only going to be a paragraph long but I feel the unction to continue, so please bear with me. Don’t let an abuser quote any portion of the Bible to you in an effort to manipulate you to stay in or return to an abusive relationship. Isn’t it amazing how some people get religious when they are in trouble? But then again, even satan masquerades as an angel of light at times (2 Corinthians 11:14).

An abuser who uses the Bible in an attempt to keep or get you in bondage is a hypocrite who also has no respect for the Lord. A person who uses the Bible to try to change your mind but not to change his or her wicked ways is overlooking Scriptures such as:

  • “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” ~ Ephesians 5:22 (KJV) A wife who is abusing her husband is not submitting herself to him or the Lord. By the way, emasculating a man is a form of abuse. How does she think the Lord is going to react when she asks Him to make her husband stay or to change him? Here’s a hint, when you ask the Lord to do something about someone, He may first address the issues within you. Ladies, one of the quickest ways to lose a man is to disrespect him. And if you are trying to get a man, you will most likely lose him if you disrespect his friends and/or family. On a final note, if you claim to be a “Proverbs 31 Woman”, pay attention to these proverbs: “It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” ~ Proverbs 21:9 (KJV) “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.” ~ Proverbs 21:19 (KJV)


  • “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it.” ~ Ephesians 5:22 (KJV) The Lord would not abuse His daughter, the woman He entrusted to care for. In fact, men need to pay attention to the following warning from the Lord: “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.” ~ 1 Peter 3:7 (KJV) Before the Lord brought Eve into Adam’s life, He ensured Adam had a place prepared for her in which she could feel at home. Don’t expect the Lord to entrust you with one of His daughters if you are going to make her life more like a sentence at Alcatraz or Robben Island instead of a Garden of Eden. Are you going to nurture or enslave her?

Jesus said, ‘If ye love Me, keep My commandments.’ ~ John 14:15 (KJV) The following is an example of how you demonstrate that love for Jesus, with respect to a relationship, even if you are not married. “…Now I beseech thee…, not as though I wrote a new commandment unto thee, but that which we had from the beginning, that we love one another. And this is love, that we walk after His commandments. This is the commandment, that, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.” ~ 2 John 5-6 (KJV) You should never hurt the one you claim to love, to include with your words. As the commandment states, “love one another”. Love will get you through bittersweet moments but love is not bittersweet.


To be continued…


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A religious title is not meant to give a person a lordship entitlement over others (see Jesus’ comments in Matthew 23). Lest not forget that the Lord also said, ‘But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.’ ~ Luke 12:48 (KJV) Here are some things (stripes) a person with a title is truly entitled to, if they are ministers of Christ Jesus:


  • Greater Damnation: Jesus said, Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For ye devour widows’ houses, and for a pretence make long prayer: therefore ye shall receive the greater damnation.’ ~ Matthew 23:14 (KJV)


  • Humility (to serve instead of being served): Jesus said, ‘But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant. And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.’ ~ Matthew 23:11-12 (KJV) Keep in mind that Jesus washed His disciples’ feet instead of them washing His.


  • Stricter Judgment: “My brethren, be not many masters [teachers], knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation.” ~ James 3:1 (KJV)


  • Increased Persecution: The apostle Paul wrote, “Are they ministers of Christ? (I speak as a fool) I am more; in labours more abundant, in stripes above measure, in prisons more frequent, in deaths oft. Of the Jews five times received I forty stripes save one. Thrice was I beaten with rods, once was I stoned, thrice I suffered shipwreck, a night and a day I have been in the deep; in journeyings often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils by mine own countrymen, in perils by the heathen, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren; in weariness and painfulness, in watchings often, in hunger and thirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness. Beside those things that are without, that which cometh upon me daily, the care of all the churches.” ~ 2 Corinthians 11:23-28 (KJV)


  • Battle Pride: Samuel said to king Saul, ‘When thou wast little in thine own sight, wast thou not made the head of the tribes of Israel, and the Lordanointed thee king over Israel? …Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the Word of the Lord, He hath also rejected thee from being king.’ ~ 1 Samuel 15:17, 22-23 (KJV)
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Ministers, regardless of which title you use, or even if you are like me and others where you choose not to use a title and let people judge your fruits instead, do not become conceited and bitter, like Haman. “And when Haman saw that Mordecai bowed not, nor did him reverence, then was Haman full of wrath. And he thought scorn to lay hands on Mordecai alone; for they had shewed him the people of Mordecai: wherefore Haman sought to destroy all the Jews that were throughout the whole kingdom of Ahasuerus, even the people of Mordecai.” ~ Esther 3:5-6 (KJV) As we know, Haman built gallows to hang Mordecai but those gallows were instead used for Haman and his ten sons (Esther 7, 9). Stay humble and lead people to worship Jesus instead of you.


If you are the kind of person who is so in love with your title(s) that you are usurping God’s authority, and desiring some form of worship (tribute) based on your title(s), I close with the following messages for you:


  • Repent, quickly, before the Lord removes your candlestick.


  • Jesus said, ‘The disciple is not above his master, nor the servant above his lord.’ ~ Matthew 10:24 (KJV) The Lord also said, call no one rabbi, master, or father (Matthew 23). If we call the Son of God, ‘Jesus’, simply ‘Jesus’, why should we laud anyone based on a title when we are supposed to be brothers and sisters in Christ?


  • The Lord will not allow you to pollute His name (Isaiah 48:11), for as He said, ‘I AM the Lord: that is My name: and My glory will I not give to another, neither My praise to graven images.’ ~ Isaiah 42:8 (KJV)
People will recognize you by your fruit. ‘Produce fruit in keeping with repentance.’ ~ Matthew 3:8 (NIV)



  The Threshold 

Do not get so accustomed to pushing the limits that you stop respecting healthy boundaries. There is a threshold between trying to conquer a perceived challenge and ignoring a potentially life-saving warning. Many people’s persistence prevents them from hearing “the voice of reason”, the warning that they are about to cross the line and go too far. Sadly, some refuse to listen to the obvious voice that lets them know they went too far, hence the pain and embarrassment they are now suffering.

Roaring Lion (1 Peter 5-8)

The pain one suffers after an intense workout is different from the intense pain one suffers as a result of an injury. In addition, muscle soreness recovers much faster than a torn muscle for example. It is also easier to continue exercising with sore muscles. Working through the soreness will help with recovery. Conversely, an injury may require a cessation of physical activity, especially with the affected region(s), in order to heal properly. Improper healing is a more serious injury waiting to happen. It is similar to entering into a relationship too soon after leaving a toxic one. Also, not resting an injured area may result in a more serious injury or delayed healing. That is reminiscent of forcing a relationship to work but making it worse instead, or, revisiting things that continue to break your heart.

There is an idiom in Jamaica that states, “Trouble nuh set like rain.” Which means, unlike the obvious rainclouds that indicate a coming rainstorm, the onset of trouble is oftentimes seemingly without warning. However, the Lord has many ways of warning us of pending disaster, but many people fail to listen or perceive His warnings. We have to be more like “…the children of Issachar, which were men that had understanding of the times, to know what Israel ought to do; the heads of them were two hundred; and all their brethren were at their commandment.” ~ 1 Chronicles 12:32 (KJV) Or, at least be like the other children of Israel, who did not have that gift, but were wise enough to heed the counsel of the children of Issachar.

Do not get caught in a situation like when Jesus said, ‘When it is evening, ye say, ‘It will be fair weather: for the sky is red.’ And in the morning, ‘It will be foul weather to day: for the sky is red and lowering.’ O ye hypocrites, ye can discern the face of the sky; but can ye not discern the signs of the times?’ ~ Matthew 16:2-3 (KJV) Learn to discern the sign of the times, to include when you need to separate yourself from those who refuse to listen about their coming judgment. You do not want to be a part of the collateral damage.

Humble Pie
The Lord exalts the humble.


I won’t leave you hanging so to speak. So here are some helpful hints to let you know that hell is about to be unleashed in your life, or the life of another:

  • You are living in sin. Whenever you violate the Lord’s Commandments, you give the devil access into your life. Many people erroneously think this only applies to the Ten Commandments. However, it also applies to other things, such as forgiving others like how the Heavenly Father forgives us (Matthew 6:14-15). Remember, “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil.” ~ Ephesians 4:26-27 (KJV) Many people are giving place to the devil by holding on to their anger, and even worse, by plotting and/or seeking revenge against the transgressor. Seeking or taking revenge is for the wicked, in part because the Lord will not defend them; they will reap what they have sown. The righteous can rest assured because the Lord said, ‘To Me belongeth vengeance and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.’ ~ Deuteronomy 32:35 (KJV) The Lord will prosecute the wicked who persecute the righteous.


  • “These six things doth theLord hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto Him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, an heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, a false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.” ~ Proverbs 6:16-19 (KJV) As a result, if a person has been slandering you, his or her judgment draws nigh.


  • Trying to ruin another person’s life to take him or her away from his or her God-ordained destiny, such as using any form of witchcraft. “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.” ~ Galatians 6:7-8 (KJV) Many people are seeking prayer and/or sympathy for the fruits of their evil deeds.


  • There are certain things, where even if the Lord does not give me specifics about their judgment, people who engage in such things inevitably bring calamity upon themselves, their cohorts, and their families. Sodom and Gomorrah were not cities with adults only. But rather, what the adults did had a negative impact on the children who were on path to grow up to be like their parents. Prolonged sin usually results in hardened iniquity. If you believe that was only an Old Testament example, take a look at Revelation 2:18-23.


  • “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.” ~ Proverbs 16:18 (KJV) “But He giveth more grace. Wherefore He saith, ‘God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.’ Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” ~ James 4:6-7 (KJV) Many people will not listen to the voice of reason, oftentimes the Holy Spirit of the Lord, which is why they pay the price. The Lord used Daniel to warn king Nebuchadnezzar about his pride, but the king chose to learn the hard way instead (Daniel 4).
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The gifts and fruit of the Holy Spirit IAW 1 Corinthians 12 and Galatians 5:22-23.

It is easy to see the calamity hanging over some people’s head like a storm cloud. Similarly to how the water from the ground evaporates, condenses into a cloud, and then precipitates as rain, we reap what we sow. As the saying goes, “When it rains, it pours.” Many people are crying in the outpouring they were told was coming, but they kept going across the threshold the Lord had emplaced for their safety. But with choices are consequences, especially for those who try to mock God. Sadly, some people have not yet figured out that their lives are not what it could be, simply because they keep sowing seeds of discord and they are reaping what they keep sowing. A part of why some have not figured out why calamity keeps striking is because the consequences of our actions are not always immediate. I won’t go into details, but I recall committing a sin and the Lord’s judgment overtook me two years later. I paid dearly but I learned greatly. I can attest that God is not mocked and He will avenge; He will not let anyone tarnish His name (Isaiah 48:11). Woe unto those who think they have gotten away with anything!

‘Come out of her, My people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues. For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities. Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double.’ ~ Revelation 18:4-6 (KJV)


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Sometimes (or possibly more frequent than that), the messages I am inspired to communicate may seem like an attack on the body of Christ. Well, that is correct, but only to an extent. Cancer, which is oftentimes referred as an overgrowth of cells, is an attack on the body that requires aggressive and immediate remediation (counterattack) in order to save body parts and the victim’s life. I cannot imagine anyone going to an oncologist who recommends waiting to see how bad the cancer gets before taking action. Cancer’s goal is to kill and it won’t go away simply because you ignore it. Similarly, there is no need to passively wait to see how bad things are going to get when a “cancer” strikes the body of Christ. Like Jesus said, ‘…from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force.’ ~ Matthew 11:12 (KJV) Do not tolerate the cancers in the body of Christ. Jesus certainly did not hold back when addressing the cancerous Pharisees, Sadducees, and scribes who were running the synagogues and temple (e.g. Matthew 23). Well, neither do I when it comes to the cancerous wolves in sheep and shepherd’s clothing in the body of Christ. I do not attack the body of Christ, only the things that are attacking it. One of the cancers in the body of Christ is pride, especially among leaders, some of who were not called or commissioned by the Lord. Have you ever noticed that David never tried playing his harp for Goliath? Instead, David placed a rock in his sling and took immediate action against the man who cursed him by his gods (1 Samuel 17:43). Some physical battles are actually the manifestation of a spiritual battle that is about to come to an end.

Breakthrough: When Jesus Sets You Free
Breakthrough: When Jesus Sets You Free

Jesus is coming back to separate the congregation; He will take the “sheep” to heaven and send the “goats” to hell (Matthew 25:31-46). There are many churches that are full of “goats”; the larger the congregation is the easier it is for the goats to blend in. Like cells, when you put them under the microscope you will be able to tell. You can tell a lot about a congregation based on the shepherd. It is written: “Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.” ~ James 4:4 (KJV) Adultery also refers to those who serve other gods. When the leader of a church is well liked by secular society, in part because of his or her unwillingness to speak out against sin and what can get people sent to hell, that is a major red flag. It is very troubling when people who are living in sin do not even feel convicted to be around some Christians, to include ministers. Some professing Christians claim that Jesus would support homosexuality, even though God calls it an abomination, something He hates (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1, etc.). Do not get confused; Jesus did not condemn the lady who had been caught committing adultery, in part because it was not the day of her judgment. Jesus did not condemn her on that day but it did not mean He condoned her sinful actions. He was more focused on addressing the hypocrisy of the Pharisees. However, the Lord gave her the chance to repent and told her to stop sinning (John 8:1-11). Let me stop before I really get started about Christians who are afraid to call out sin, to include in and from the pulpit, especially when the Holy Spirit is leading them to do so. But then again, it is hard for a person to cast out a devil he or she is in bed with.

Humble Pie
The Lord exalts the humble.


Some ministers have even gone as far as to publicly declare that Christians and Muslims serve the same god, thereby misleading their congregations. I won’t go too in depth, but among many things, the Bible states: “Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God: and every one that loveth Him that begat loveth Him also that is begotten of Him.” ~ 1 John 5:1 (KJV) On the contrary, according to the quran: “No son did allah beget, nor is there any god along with him: (if there were many gods), behold, each god would have taken away what he had created, and some would have lorded it over others! Glory to allah! (he is free) from the (sort of) things they attribute to him!” ~ Surah 23:91 But lest not forget, “Who is a liar but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the Father and the Son. Whosoever denieth the Son, the same hath not the Father: he that acknowledgeth the Son hath the Father also.” ~ 1 John 2:22-23 (KJV)

Again, adultery also refers to serving other gods. Christians, especially leaders, need to get out of bed with other gods and repent before they have their encounter with Christ. Until then, keep in mind that the Lord will judge you for what you do and also what you tolerate (Revelation 2:18-23). “…The time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God? And if the righteous scarcely be saved, where shall the ungodly and the sinner appear?” ~ 1 Peter 4:17-18 (KJV)

Remove the cancerous cells from your life (marriage, church, etc.) before they remove you.

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Bondage In Church   

It is a form of witchcraft (via control, manipulation, and/or intimidation) for a minister to tell congregants that they will backslide if they leave his or her ministry. It is even worse if the minister says people will be cursed for leaving his or her ministry. In the case of the latter, the minister is actually releasing a curse on those who leave the ministry. Intercessors, please, do not fall for the devil’s trick to “pray someone back into the ministry”. Your church is not the key to a person’s salvation, Christ is! Keep in mind that Jesus said, ‘I AM the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by Me.’ ~ John 14:6 (KJV)

A minister who puts people under bondage is insecure and errant at best, but may actually be a messenger of satan, a wolf in shepherd’s clothing. Please note the following regarding how the Good Shepherd, Jesus, reacted when people left His ministry:

“From that time many of His disciples went back, and walked no more with Him. Then said Jesus unto the twelve, ‘Will ye also go away?’ Then Simon Peter answered Him, ‘Lord, to whom shall we go? Thou hast the Words of eternal life. And we believe and are sure that Thou art that Christ, the Son of the living God.’” ~ John 6:66-69 (KJV)

The apostles stayed on their own free will based on what they saw in the Lord. Jesus does not force people to stay with Him, and neither should any professing minister of Christ. Also, the Lord never spoke an ill word against those who left; He simply let them go.

It is a shame what many professing ministers of Christ are doing in secret, and sometimes even boldly in public. As a Christian, “…Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness [to include from the pulpit], but rather reprove them. FOR IT IS A SHAME EVEN TO SPEAK OF THOSE THINGS WHICH ARE DONE OF THEM IN SECRET. But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the light: for whatsoever doth make manifest is light.” ~ Ephesians 5:11-13 (KJV) Do not stay in anyone’s ministry because of fear, obligation, or guilt “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” ~ 2 Timothy 1:7 (KJV) In addition, be leery of any minster who offers you a “leadership” position in his or her ministry at around the time you were thinking of leaving. Sometimes that is a way of keeping you in bondage based on obligation.

On a final few notes for those ministers, “…O ye shepherds, hear the Word of the Lord; Thus saith the Lord God; ‘Behold, I AM against the shepherds; and I will require My flock at their hand, and cause them to cease from feeding the flock; neither shall the shepherds feed themselves any more; for I will deliver My flock from their mouth, that they may not be meat for them.’” ~ Ezekiel 34:9-10 (KJV) The Lord had 7,000 men in reserve to replace Elijah, and He has others to replace you if you do not repent. And just in case you want to go there, despite king Saul’s best efforts, he could not kill David, the one the Lord had anointed to replace him.

“Setting the captives free.”

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Discernment (Three Voices)  

The three “voices” in your life come from God, the soul (which is comprised of the mind, will, and emotions), and devils. It is very important for you to discern the source of the voice that is trying to influence you; there is only one voice that is always correct. After all, “There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” ~ Proverbs 16:25 (KJV)

Sometimes those voices are communicated via human messengers, who may not be aware of the source of their speech, and you have to discern for them. Imagine Peter’s shock when he thought he was doing a good thing by rebuking Jesus. “But he [Jesus] turned, and said unto Peter, ‘Get thee behind Me, satan: thou art an offence unto Me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men.’” ~ Matthew 16:23 (KJV) You may have to do the same thing to others when a devil tries to use them to speak into your life. Conversely, oftentimes, people think of how the following Scripture applies to others without realizing they have to apply it to themselves also: “Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.” ~ 1 John 4:1 (KJV) Everyone needs to test the spirit behind the voice that is trying to influence their life. The following is aimed at helping you identify which one of those three voices is trying to influence you.


Holy Spirit Led
The gifts and fruit of the Holy Spirit IAW 1 Corinthians 12 and Galatians 5:22-23.

The “voice” of the Lord aligns with His written Words in the Bible. However, the Words must be contextually correct and geared towards leading away from sin and towards a closer relationship with the Lord (Revelation 19:10). Jesus said His sheep know His voice and they will only follow Him (John 10:27). Note that He said His voice as opposed to His Words. Keep in mind that the devil used the written Words of God in an attempt to lead Jesus into sin (Luke 4:1-13). The voice of God leads us out or away from sin, and behavior that reflects negatively on the Lord. It is tragic when people get deceived into sinful behavior and they use the Word of God to justify their sins. When the lady was caught committing adultery, the Pharisees tried to use the Words of God to get her killed, while trying to tempt Jesus in the process. [The Pharisees were holy men yet their actions were reminiscent of the devil (Luke 4:1-13).] But the Lord found a way of escape for her that did not violate His written Words (Exodus 33:19). However, the Lord told her that He did not condemn her, but she should go and sin no more (John 8:1-11). He did not tell her to go stay with her lover because He is gracious. If you find yourself using Scriptures to justify living in sin, you need to seek counsel from people who have a close relationship with the Lord. The Pharisees knew the Law but they did not know God, or His Son [God in the flesh]. You do not need counsel from people who know the Scriptures but do not know God or they may misapply the Scriptures to your situation. Many things went into Jesus decisions to release the adulteress, such as how the Pharisees violated Deuteronomy 6:16, and misapplied the Law stated in Leviticus 20:10.

Just like how Jesus rebuked the devil who inspired Peter’s words, you need to rebuke devils too. However, there are times when people rebuke a devil but the source of evil actually came from a person’s mind. David was a king and I have no doubt that devils were around him trying to lead him into sin. For as the Lord said, ‘…smite the shepherd, and the sheep shall be scattered…’ ~ Zechariah 13:7 (KJV) The devils know that principle, which is a part of why it is so important to pray for leaders, in the church and the secular world, even if you may not like or agree with them personally or professionally. Just take a look at the evil kings of Israel who led the people deeper into sin. Now, for as much as devils tried to influence David, I don’t think we can put too much blame on the devils once David walked out on the roof of his house and saw the beautiful Bathsheba taking a bath.

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The devil is entitled to set his bait but you don’t have to take it. The Lord told Cain that sin was at his door but he must rule over it (Genesis 4:7). Also keep the following in mind:

  • “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.” ~ 1 Corinthians 10:13 (KJV)


  • “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” ~ James 4:7 (KJV)


  • It is hard to tempt a person with something he or she has no desire for.

One of the reasons David did not need demonic assistance for what happened next was that he already had many wives and concubines at that point, which was symbolic of his desire for women. For single people who struggle with sexual temptation, do not assume that being married is going to make the temptation any less. Being married is probably going to make it worse, and that is when the devil will most likely send his best assets to target you and your marriage. Like the Lord said, sin is crouching at your door but you must rule over it. When you get married, sexual sin may begin knocking on the door of your life more fervently. When David asked his servants about the woman, one of them said it was Bathsheba, Uriah’s wife (2 Samuel 11:3). The Lord had just given David a way of escape. But rather than having his servants going to get one of his wives or concubines to satisfy any urges he may have had, David had them bring Bathsheba to him. Before David was king, he felt convicted for cutting off a piece of king Saul’s robe. Saul was a wicked man who was trying to kill David, but he would not harm the king because he was the Lord’s anointed (1 Samuel 24). But as the king, David did not have the same conviction to stop from going too far with Bathsheba. David would have been more justified in killing Saul than defiling Bathsheba.

Humble Pie
The Lord exalts the humble.

Similarly to how there are three voices, there are three portals of sin, which are: “…the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life…” ~ 1 John 2:16 (KJV) David apparently succumbed to all three and it started when he fixed his eyes on Bathsheba. Many people stumble at that point because their lust activates the voice of their soul (the mind, will, and emotions). Keep in mind that the Lord said, ‘The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?’ ~ Jeremiah 17:9 (KJV) Just look at how David’s son Amnon claimed he was basically madly in love with Tamar, and how quickly that emotion changed to hate once he exerted his will on her (2 Samuel 13). It also did not help that Amnon fed the lust of his flesh by taking a messenger of satan’s advice when he listen to Jonadab. Amnon listened to the wrong voice and it cost him his life. Undoubtedly, the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23).

When it comes to “voices”, the Lord said the following, which also applies to those who are not prophets:

  • ‘The prophets prophesy lies in My name: I sent them not, neither have I commanded them, neither spake unto them: they prophesy unto you a false vision and divination, and a thing of nought, and the deceit of their heart.’ ~ Jeremiah 14:14 (KJV)


  • ‘How long shall this be in the heart of the prophets that prophesy lies? Yea, they are prophets of the deceit of their own heart.’ ~ Jeremiah 23:26 (KJV)

That reminds me, the three voices are also the three sources of dreams and visions. Sometimes people are utterly convinced that a dream or vision was from the Lord when it was actually the deceit of their own heart manifesting in a visual way.

Minister to the People
Minister to the People

When the voice aligns with Scripture but feeds the lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh, and/or the pride of life, it is a sign that it is most likely not of God. Again, this is a part of the reason why it is vitally important to have a relationship with the Lord. Many false prophets give prophecies about how great the Lord is allegedly going to make a person, in part to feed the recipient’s pride. Sure, the Lord gave Joseph two dreams regarding how his family would one day bow down to him (Genesis 37). But, because the dreams (prophecies) were from the Lord, He took Joseph through a 13-year humbling process before Joseph got in position for them to bow down to him, and then he had to wait about 7 more years before it happened. If a person is full of pride upon receiving a prophecy but does not begin to go through a humbling process before the alleged appointed time, there should be a high index of suspicion that the prophecy was not from the Lord. There are so many Scriptures that address the fact that the Lord humbles the proud and exalts the humble. For example, ‘…God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.’ ~ James 4:6 (KJV) The voice of the Lord is going to drive a person towards humility. Look at the incredible ways in which the Lord used Moses, even the Lord said to him, ‘See, I have made thee a god to Pharaoh: and Aaron thy brother shall be thy prophet.’ ~ Exodus 7:1 (KJV) But we see why the Lord could say that about Moses, and entrust him with so much power. It is written: “Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth.” ~ Numbers 12:3 (KJV) Pride has a way of blocking one’s ability to receive the things from the Lord. People tend to shut God’s voice down and listen to things that feed the soul, which makes them more prone to listening to the carnal voices from the soul or a devil.

It is a bad sign when a person refuses to listen to wise counsel, especially because it contradicts his or her desires. After all, “Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.” ~ Proverbs 11:14 (KJV) People perished because the following kings failed to listen to wise counsel, and as you will soon see, there is a difference between counsel and wise (Godly) counsel. Lest not forget, “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.” ~ Proverbs 13:20 (KJV)

  • When satan inspired David, a king and prophet, to conduct a census of Israel, his general, Joab, gave David wise advice to not trespass against the Lord. But the king overruled his general’s advice and incurred the Lord’s wrath. Sadly, 70,000 people perished because David would not listen to Joab’s wise counsel (1 Chronicles 21).


  • The prophet Micaiah warned king Ahab to not go to battle at Ramothgilead lest he die. However, the king imprisoned the prophet and ignored his wise (Godly) counsel. Subsequently, the king died a slow and painful death (1 Kings 22).


  • Rehoboam succeeded his father Solomon as Israel’s king. The king had a tough decision to make when his people petitioned him to lighten the yokes king Solomon had imposed on them. Rehoboam consulted with the old men, who had served with the wise king Solomon, and they recommended that he grant the people’s requests in order to retain their loyalty. But then the king sought the counsel of the young men whom he had grown up with. They appealed to the king’s pride by recommending that he make things more difficult for the people to make it known that he was “better” than Solomon. King Rehoboam followed the advice of his friends and ended up losing the 10 northern tribes of Israel to Jeroboam, and one of his men was killed. Rehoboam remained king of Judah to the south while Jeroboam reigned over Israel (1 Kings 12).

We are instructed to “…have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the light: for whatsoever doth make manifest is light.” ~ Ephesians 5:11-13 (KJV) Yes, it is a shame to speak about what some Christians, to include ministers, are doing or thinking about doing in “secret” on this very day. The Lord gave David time to repent of his transgressions against Bathsheba and her deceased husband Uriah. But since David did not, his rebuke and subsequent judgment were made public. No one is going to discredit the Lord and continue doing so for too long. The devil is a deceiver, but as previously mentioned, he is not the only source of deception. The late Arthur Fletcher of the UNCF is credited with coining the phrase, “A mind is a terrible thing to waste.” Sadly, many Christians are wasting their minds on sinful things, sometimes cloaked under the Lord’s name. When a person does something that he or she alleges is from the Lord, but has to take measures to cover his or her tracks to avoid detection or in order to gain access, those are indicators that deception (evil) is involved. Too many Christians are using their minds to accomplish evil as opposed to glorifying God. Please stop using Scriptures or the Lord’s name to justify sinful actions.


Breakthrough: When Jesus Sets You Free
Breakthrough: When Jesus Sets You Free

Another sign that deception is indicated is when a person tries to obtain an allegedly Godly objective by inducing a spirit of fear. That is witchcraft because it involves imposing one person’s will on another individual. It gets even worse when such witchcraft, based on a spirit of fear, is made to look like succumbing to it will be pleasing to the Lord. Fear of that type is not the reverential fear of the Lord. Sadly, it has to do with control by supplanting a person’s will, which is not pleasing to the Lord, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” ~ 2 Timothy 1:7 (KJV) Fear is one of the reasons why some people are seduced into cults but find it hard to leave when they discover the dark truth.

One of the many aspects of inducing the spirit of fear is how people are afraid to speak out against errant religious leaders, to include the wolves in shepherd’s clothing. For example, congregants are often told [from the pulpit] to not touch the Lord’s anointed, as if they aren’t anointed too. In addition, some of the so-called “Lord’s anointed” are not anointed at all, or at least not by the Lord. Also, lest not forget that King Saul was the Lord’s anointed but the Spirit of the Lord had departed from him and an evil spirit began troubling (influencing) him (1 Samuel 16:14). We are even told of Saul prophesying under the unction of an evil spirit, after which he demonstrated the fruit of that spirit by trying to kill David (1 Samuel 18:10-11). Some Christians are doing the same thing. They are listening to the wrong voice, sometimes errantly professing that they are hearing from the Lord, even when the fruits clearly contradict that assertion. [See Galatians 5:19-23 to compare and contrast the works of the flesh versus the fruit of the Holy Spirit.] Many of those deceived individuals are trying to silence those who are truly hearing from the Lord and communicating His messages.


People will recognize you by your fruit. ‘Produce fruit in keeping with repentance.’ ~ Matthew 3:8 (NIV)

When it comes to religious leaders, the apostle Paul wrote, “Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses. Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.” ~ 1 Timothy 5:19-20 (KJV) Initially, we are told to not receive unsubstantiated allegations against an elder, which basically means not to receive gossip or slander. But that does not mean a young parishioner who was secretly abused by a priest should not report it, especially since evidence can be gathered in some cases to support the person’s claim. Subsequently, we are told to publicly rebuke those who sin so others may fear. Sadly, throughout history, many abusive elders were simply reassigned without admonishment, so they left a trail of destruction wherever they went. The same apostle who wrote that letter to Timothy publicly rebuked Peter, a senior apostle in terms of having been a Christian and being commissioned as an apostle much longer than Paul (Galatians 2). Yet, Paul publicly exposed Peter’s hypocrisy, which included leading other Jewish believers from fellowshipping with the Gentile believers. Not only is that an example of publicly rebuking an errant elder, it also demonstrates that actual or perceived seniority does not always equate to greater righteousness. Again, back to the example of Saul and David, it was David, the junior of the two who was being led by the Spirit of God and was the more righteous. Saul was serving as king but the Lord had rejected him and accepted David (1 Samuel 13-16). The Lord may have anointed many of today’s religious leaders but some have since been rejected. One of who failed to publicly rebuke someone who basically called him a fourth member of the Godhead. Eve made the same mistake when the devil told her that eating the “forbidden fruit” would make her and Adam like gods (Genesis 3:1-7).

In addition to everything presented thus far, when it comes to discerning the source of the influencing voice, you can also to draw from the following:

“Let the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge. If any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by, let the first hold his peace. For ye may all prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be comforted. And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets. For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.” ~ 1 Corinthians 14:29-33 (KJV)

Without going too in depth, a part of judging prophecy is discerning which voice is influencing a person. Sometimes the Holy Spirit gives a Word of knowledge regarding such matters, or you can tell via the gift of discerning of spirits (1 Corinthians 12). You can see how the prophet Jeremiah judged Hananiah’s prophecy. The prophecy sounded plausible so Jeremiah initially said ‘Amen’. But Jeremiah followed up with a few things to help others judge the prophecy, and to give Hananiah a chance to repent. One of those statements include, ‘…when the word of the prophet shall come to pass, then shall the prophet be known, that the Lord hath truly sent him.’ ~ Jeremiah 28:9 (KJV) It may take the fullness of time to determine if something had truly come from the Lord, which is one of several reasons to record what people declare in the name of the Lord in accordance with Habakkuk 2:2-3. Another way to discern which spirit a person is of is based on when he or she is questioned or even challenged on their words. It becomes more blatantly obvious if what was stated in the name of the Lord does not come to pass. But, the Lord did not allow people to wait to see if Hananiah had truly spoken on His behalf. Jeremiah had left the house of the Lord when God sent him back to confront Hananiah:

“Then said the prophet Jeremiah unto Hananiah the prophet, ‘Hear now, Hananiah; The Lord hath not sent thee; but thou makest this people to trust in a lie. Therefore thus saith the Lord; ‘Behold, I will cast thee from off the face of the earth: this year thou shalt die, because thou hast taught rebellion against the Lord.’ So Hananiah the prophet died the same year in the seventh month.” ~ Jeremiah 28:15-17 (KJV)

The pride of life may have plagued Hananiah, even to the point where he did not repent when he had the chance. He wanted to be noticed or he would have kept quiet. He had no reverence for the Lord to make proclamations in His name, even though the Lord had not spoken to him, sent him, or commanded him to speak. Misusing the Lord’s name carries serious penalties, to include being labeled as a lying or false prophet. The Lord addressed the consequences of that when He said, ‘Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain; for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh His name in vain.’ ~ Exodus 20:7 (KJV) In addition, what happened to Hananiah may have been only the beginning of his torments, for as Jesus said:

‘Not every one that saith unto Me, ‘Lord, Lord’, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of My Father which is in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Thy name? And in Thy name have cast out devils? And in Thy name done many wonderful works?’ And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from Me, ye that work iniquity.’ ~ Matthew 7:21-23 (KJV)

Hananiah prophesied in the Lord’s name, yet he was a worker of iniquity. He may have fooled some people along the way but he could not fool God. He hid some things in the dark for a while but the Lord exposed him in the light. Hananiah wanted notoriety and he got it, but as a Biblical example and a warning to errant and false prophets. One of the ways to help discern which spirit a person is of, which is a part of why the spirits of the prophets is subject to the prophets, is to get to know the Lord’s voice for yourself. When you are used to hearing from the Lord for yourself, the voice of another you will NOT follow.


Another helpful tip in determining which spirit a voice is of is to look for evidence of a snake. Snakes hiss when confronted; confront a false prophet and see what happens, to include how they try to slither away from taking accountability for missing the mark. Snakes have a forked tongue, so from the same mouth may come smooth seductive words followed by the voice of a devil. Some snakes have fangs that inject venom, which is what happens when a person lies, it spreads poison. Other snakes are constrictors (with teeth) and they want to squeeze the life out of your relationship with Christ. Whether the snake is venomous or nonvenomous, it twists the truth to meet its objective. Snakes set traps by lying in wait, sometimes along trails that lead to watering holes. So when a person is on track to seek the living waters of Christ, the snake tries to prevent the person from getting to Jesus. And finally, I think, do not overlook the undeniable sign when you see the shed skin of a snake. No matter how many times a snake sheds it skin, it is still a snake, but each time it becomes an even bigger snake without ever improving its character.

Listening to the wrong voice for too long may cause the Lord to hand a person over to a reprobate mind (Romans 1). A person who refuses to heed wise counsel and listen to the truth may develop a disdain for the truth. So, “…because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved. And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: that they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness.” ~ 2 Thessalonians 2:10-12 (KJV) Do not ignore the signs when a person who claims to be speaking on the Lord’s behalf is delusional. For “…the [Holy] Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron.” ~ 1 Timothy 4:1-2 (KJV) Moreover, ensure you are listening to the right voice. Do not let pride get in the way of your repentance if either your soul or a devil (seducing spirit) leads you astray. Arguably, the only thing worse than getting deceived is remaining in the deception when you know the truth. I sincerely doubt it was the first time Hananiah had told lies in the name of the Lord, but it certainly became his last. It is very important to know the voices in your life, both when you are alone and when others are communicating to you. Please, try the spirits because not every spirit is of God. Do not allow the “yes” you have contrived in your deceitful heart prevent you from hearing the “no” the Lord is communicating to you.

A Test of My Faith
Endure life’s fiery trials.



Fully Equipped

It is great to have a pastor who will protect you from the wiles of the enemy. However, does that pastor equip you to discern and defeat the enemy?

Just in case you are wondering why you need to defeat the enemy, since he is “a defeated foe”, maybe your life is somehow free of any form of demonic resistance. But let’s assume that it is, I invite you to refer to Scriptures such as 2 Corinthians 2:11, 10:3-5; 1 Peter 5:8; 1 Thessalonians 2:17-18; James 4:7; Ephesians 6:10-19.

One of the best ways to defeat the enemy is by fulfilling your calling from the Lord. A pastor’s “protection” is sometimes what prevents people from fulfilling their Godly calling. By the way, not every calling involves starting a church. The Lord may have called you to preach without calling you to be a pastor. In addition, He may have called you to preach but not in your church or any church building… Many people know their place in the church building, to include where they sit, but they don’t know where they stand in the kingdom of God. Would you be completely lost without your shepherd (pastor) or do you know how to find the Good Shepherd (Christ Jesus)? Can you lead someone to Christ or do you only know how to lead people to your church? What do you do when you know what the Lord has called you to do but no one in your church either knows your calling or wants to acknowledge it?

Please keep the following in mind:

  • ‘Smite the shepherd, and the sheep shall be scattered…’ ~ Zechariah 13:7 (KJV) Consequently, pray for ministers, especially those who are effective against the kingdom of darkness because they endure a tremendous level of spiritual warfare.


  • “And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ. I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able.” ~ 1 Corinthians 3:1-2 (KJV)


  • “For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat.For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the Word of righteousness: for he is a babe. But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.” ~ Hebrews 5:12-14 (KJV)

Are you prepared to do what the Lord has called you to do, and are you doing it?

So, while those who watch out for you will have to give an account to the Lord for you (Hebrews 13:17), everyone will have to give an account of him or herself to the Lord (Romans 14:12). Keep “The Parable of the Talents” in mind, with specific emphasis on the master’s rebuke and disposition of the servant who hid his talent without putting it to good use (Matthew 25:14:31). Again, are you doing what the Lord has called you to do? In fact, do you know what the Lord has called you to do and where He wants you to be? If you don’t, I strongly suggest that you ask Him.

Minister to the People
Minister to the People

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